The Late Zone

Getting a Huge hug from my husband he informs me “you are as sexy as the day we met!” Well that kind of thinking will get you far I tell him. “Dating men of today can’t hold a candle to you my love.” I tell him. It’s all in the way you treat a woman he says. I tell him yes it really is all about everything you do and say to a woman. He laughs at me and says “ok darling just as long as I get a hug for it”! I am a lucky woman I tell him. After 30 years of marriage we know each other well. Isn't that’s what we all look for when we begin dating. This doesn’t happen overnight, it takes time and compromise and above all else, communication. We were sitting in a look nook of a room one night waiting on a table at our favorite steak house when a young couple asked my husband and I how long we had been happily married. We look at each other and said not long enough... we laughed and told them 25 years. The young lady asked me what I do to keep us together. I told her young lady you both have to want it and you have put each other first, but above all else you must talk to each other. I don't care how trivial you might think his problem is you must put all your effort into the problem and work it out with him. Make it your problem too, and fix it together. Sexy is in your mind not just in youth, remember that and hug each other often. The dating never stops, always spend special time together. As your lives together blossom and things change, never change what you mean to each other. Keep dating and be sexy with each other always. She got up off his lap and walked across the little room and hugged me. I thought it was sweet and so did my husband. I never forgot those two kids and I hope they are both as happy today as they were that night.